this or that

would you rather
1) love someone or to be loved?
2) give or receive?
3) hear the hurtful truth or the deceiving white lie?
4) lose a really horrible friend or lose a good friend?
5) cry or put up a brave front?
6) let things be of relative to others or absolute?
7) take the initiative and cause trouble out of it or wait for something to happen and leave the situation to rot?
8) be able to think and know the reality or to be not able to think and enjoy a carefree life?
9) be a jack of all trades or to specialise?
10) change for someone or change someone?

for life's uncertainities, dont study the Heisenberg uncertainty principle or go for some insurance, instead, sleep.

Really.